Reality Hits
Hola people! Not too sure if any of you are still here. oh well, here we go again.
Coming back here because:
1. I need moneh!
2. I need a space to write shits about
3. Best place to make explanation
4. Best way to tell someone something when you cant do it face-to-face
There, enough reasons?
Hold on, not here to actually do all those. I do miss the days where I spent time writing and writing. Definitely a best way to express your feelings and thoughts inside you. Somehow, you'll feel better after writing it. And, you'll think how dumb you were back then when you re-read it. Do bear with my vocabulary and grammar for this case. Hee! :)
Reality hit so bad for the past two years. Lets start of by the working world. two-faces snake, sarcasm bitch, wanna-be little bimbo and arrogant-be-cool-gentlemen was all over the place. I didn't like the fact that people can't be themselves most of the time.
There this picture! I find it so amusing when a friend send this to me. This happened to me every single time when something work-related happened. All the colleagues will definitely show me this stupid reaction.
So, lesson to learn will be: never ever show your true colours in front of anyone besides your own family. Reason being, this world is just too cruel for you to be your own good self. Majority of the people carries negative thoughts rather than positive things. The more goods you have done, the more negative impact you will get. Of course, I'm not asking you to be evil at this case. Never ever show all of your talent at one-shot. Separate them to different situation and keep in mind, timing is very important as well. You wouldn't want people to take advantage on you, don't you? So play smart people, play smart.
Then, another reality check is:
Yes, is relationship that I'm speaking right now. Many people tends to advice "only love 70%, the remaining 30% is to love yourself". Or, some said "you have to love yourself first before you know how to love someone else".
Any of that two statements are true. But "love", somehow make us thing it can resolve everything or just anything. We tends to think, I love my partner, so I must forgive her/him. But how many of us struggling not to forgive or even trying to forget what has been done.
The words "forgive", is very easy to be said than done. This is reality guys. You're not alone in this world who always struggle about this in the relationship. What I have learned is, sometimes is really all bout the efforts your partner has put it in and how happy you are in this relationship. If most of the time you are feeling depressed or trying so hard to swallow your words just because you didn't want to cause an argument, maybe is time for you to come back to the reality and re-think, if this is the correct partner you're looking for and what was the reason you guys were together in the first place.
We humans, we can solve all the problems but definitely not relationship. They are the one who bring us down most of the time because it doesn't just includes all the time/ or efforts we have/had put it in, is our emotions that controls us. It's really okay if you wanted to cry over it, it's really okay if you wanted to be mad with it. Don't try to be cool with it and just let it flow. This is because once it flew passed, you will never get the chance to do it again.
There. end of the post. bahhhh.... <3 p="">
Coming back here because:
1. I need moneh!
2. I need a space to write shits about
3. Best place to make explanation
4. Best way to tell someone something when you cant do it face-to-face
There, enough reasons?
Hold on, not here to actually do all those. I do miss the days where I spent time writing and writing. Definitely a best way to express your feelings and thoughts inside you. Somehow, you'll feel better after writing it. And, you'll think how dumb you were back then when you re-read it. Do bear with my vocabulary and grammar for this case. Hee! :)
Reality hit so bad for the past two years. Lets start of by the working world. two-faces snake, sarcasm bitch, wanna-be little bimbo and arrogant-be-cool-gentlemen was all over the place. I didn't like the fact that people can't be themselves most of the time.
So, lesson to learn will be: never ever show your true colours in front of anyone besides your own family. Reason being, this world is just too cruel for you to be your own good self. Majority of the people carries negative thoughts rather than positive things. The more goods you have done, the more negative impact you will get. Of course, I'm not asking you to be evil at this case. Never ever show all of your talent at one-shot. Separate them to different situation and keep in mind, timing is very important as well. You wouldn't want people to take advantage on you, don't you? So play smart people, play smart.
Then, another reality check is:
Yes, is relationship that I'm speaking right now. Many people tends to advice "only love 70%, the remaining 30% is to love yourself". Or, some said "you have to love yourself first before you know how to love someone else".
Any of that two statements are true. But "love", somehow make us thing it can resolve everything or just anything. We tends to think, I love my partner, so I must forgive her/him. But how many of us struggling not to forgive or even trying to forget what has been done.
The words "forgive", is very easy to be said than done. This is reality guys. You're not alone in this world who always struggle about this in the relationship. What I have learned is, sometimes is really all bout the efforts your partner has put it in and how happy you are in this relationship. If most of the time you are feeling depressed or trying so hard to swallow your words just because you didn't want to cause an argument, maybe is time for you to come back to the reality and re-think, if this is the correct partner you're looking for and what was the reason you guys were together in the first place.
We humans, we can solve all the problems but definitely not relationship. They are the one who bring us down most of the time because it doesn't just includes all the time/ or efforts we have/had put it in, is our emotions that controls us. It's really okay if you wanted to cry over it, it's really okay if you wanted to be mad with it. Don't try to be cool with it and just let it flow. This is because once it flew passed, you will never get the chance to do it again.
There. end of the post. bahhhh.... <3 p="">
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