a person's story- trust

they'd been together for 4 years. is a long and "deep" relationship, said he. unfortunately, things did not last longer as he expected. reason given by her was because she likes somebody else. in fact, that wasnt the truth. after couple months, finally truth is relieved, as she cant afford to trust him anymore. his a flirtatious guy. he did something behind her back; she's a genius. she knows everything that her boyfriend did. so what you gonna say bout tht? the boyfriend under estimated his galfren? he was shocked after hearing the true reason they brokeup.

he blamed himself very much. as for me, i can totally understand how the galfren feels. then, i spoke to him. he still loves her alot. day and night, every second every minute. finding every way to get her back, esp to gain back her trust. too bad, once a person lose their faith in you, is not easy to fix it back again. probly time will prove everything again. but it wont be a short time.

well, being sneaky is my talent. so i went to her and spoke to her. the same thing as i predicted. can see she still cares bout him alot. but cudnt talk much bout it cause i wasnt really close to her. found out, there's alot common things in between us. told her what i been thru and she understands it very well.

for now, their remaining as a friend. friend as in they still talks to each other and share problems kind of thing. not like a hi-bye friend. sometimes, he feels like just giving up but she still appears in his head no matter how hard he try not to think bout it.

one thing i never get it is, why cant people just tell the truth while gonna breakup? since its gonna hurt that person, lying will not reduce the pain, by telling the truth will not make it worst also. cause is still pain anyways. is just a matter of long-term kind of pain or short-term.

what's your kind of story?

this is not a full story of it, just a part.